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Winning at the Fertility Waiting Game

Playing the fertility waiting game

If you have tried unsuccessfully for one year (six months if you are over 35) to get pregnant, you are among the 1 in 8 American couples facing infertility. It is a unique disease in that it often suspends patients in monthly wait-hope-despair cycles. The frequent ups/downs of the trying/waiting can exacerbate already existing stress. Basically, no one likes the fertility waiting game.

To help you, Texas Fertility Center offers monthly seminars as well as printed and online educational materials. We believe it’s empowering to know about the treatment options, financial strategies for funding fertility and the link between wellness and fertility.

Concentrate on finances during the fertility waiting game

If you’re just beginning the active phase of fertility treatment, you’re likely focused on the cost of treatment. A conversation with the Texas Fertility Center billing office will help you understand the financing options available to you.

We recommend having a frank discussion with your partner about how you will pay for the cost of fertility treatment. Will you rely on a savings account? Take a second job? Sell a car or use investments to fund your care? You should also decide a cut-off point. How much time, money and emotional reserves will you devote to pursuing a baby?

Treat yourself like a mom-to-be while you wait

Don’t wait for a positive pregnancy test to start adopting a healthy lifestyle. A pregnant woman will tailor her diet to nourish a growing baby. Ask our TFC nurses to make recommendations on foods to avoid and those to incorporate into your diet to enhance fertility.

Our TFC fertility doctors also recommend maintaining a healthy weight. Too much or too little body fat will interfere with ovulation, so strive to maintain a body mass index (BMI) between 19 and 25. Of course, you’ll also want to abstain from cigarette smoking and drug and alcohol use.

Finally, the link between stress and infertility appears to be real.  Experience tells us that a regular practice of meditation, massage, deep breathing and moderate exercise improves your mood and outlook. During the rigors of fertility treatment, you’ll want to take proactive steps to nurture yourself and relieve stress. This is the key to the fertility waiting game.

Connect as a couple during the fertility waiting game

Before you decided to start a family, you chose to start a life together. Celebrate that! Try to take mental breaks from fertility treatment and pursue activities that you both enjoy. Sign up for a 5K, visit a bed and breakfast, take in a matinee. Once you have a baby or toddler, your couple time all but disappears. You would, of course, gladly trade that free time for a baby. However, try to focus on bolstering your relationship now, before you feel the all-consuming pull of parenthood’s daily demands.

Although it may feel like life stands still for you while all of your friends move on to parenthood, the wait will end. You’ll have a resolution to this journey. The team at Texas Fertility Center will work diligently to help you get pregnant. Meanwhile, focus on steps you can take now to improve your relationship, health and finances. Contact us to learn more about the fertility waiting game.

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